I'm learning to become a Hospice volunteer, and the more I learn about it, the more I'm itching to get out there and get my hands dirty. The most important thing to know is that they want to help others die with dignity, peace and comfort..... preferably in their own homes, surrounded by the things and the people they love. BOTH the patient AND the family are surrounded with a caring team. The goal is no longer one of cure, but of comfort care. One writer explains, "hospice is a movement, not a place and helps people LIVE while they are dying. It bathes their wasting bodies, combs their thinning hair, loves them unreservedly, diminishes their pain, sees to their joy and improves their ending lives as if to do so were an honor rather than a chore." Hospice treats patients as people, not as diseases. I also love this: "Hospice workers think that the top sheets and bottom sheets should match, even if the patient can no longer see; hospice workers explain the purpose of every shot and suppository, even if the patient can no longer hear; hospice workers don't offer false hope to a patient, nor do they say, 'Eat, you have to eat or you won't get better.' Lastly, this is a wonderful testimonial from a patient: "I went to the hospital to be cured and I almost died. I went to the hospice to die and I lived." To die with dignity and with as much choice as we can render- isn't that how we would all like our final exits to be?
All quotes are taken from the book, IMPERFECT CONTROL by Judith Viorst.
You've cried at weddings, right? At the birth of a baby? And, of course, you've probably cried at funerals, but have you ever stopped to wonder why both happy and sad events, make you so emotional? Even worse, do you often feel like you're the only one? I will impart wisdom gleaned from professional conferences, seminars, books and articles and/or I will blog my personal thoughts. Either way, I hope you check in often, so you know that your tears are never shed in a vacuum!
Saturday, February 5, 2011
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About Me
- Ms. Baby Boomer-dang
- Dallas, TX, United States
- I am an educator and consultant, in the field of loss and grief. I love educating others, as well as learning from them, about life's little and big, happy and sad losses: marriage, divorce, moving away, losing one's health, aging gracefully.....or not......death of a loved one, a pet, a dream, children growing up and parents having to let go, etc. etc. Hopefully, you get the picture. Let's laugh, cry and learn together!
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- REFRAMING
- MOVING FORWARD
- HAVE NO REGRETS
- TAGGING ON TO YESTERDAY'S TOPIC
- HELP!
- FORGIVENESS
- CRYING IS A GOOD THING!
- THERE'S AN ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM
- BECOMING AN ORPHAN
- TUCK EVERLASTING
- GIVING YOU A FEW DAYS REST
- SOME THINGS NEVER CHANGE
- ANTICIPATORY GRIEF
- HOSPICE: WHAT A WAY TO GO!
- YES, YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO THINK ABOUT IT!
- SHORT AND SWEET
- THAT HORRIBLE GUILT!
- WE ALL NEED SUPPORT
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