Sunday, September 25, 2011

DREAM!

"If you don't have a dream, how can you have a dream come true?"
Dan Zadra.
"Your imagination is the preview to life's coming attractions."
Albert Einstein

Thursday, September 22, 2011

TAKE TIME FOR SPONTANEITY

"We get so busy making a living that we forget to live."  (That's my favorite part!)  But then Dan Zadra goes on to say, "At what point did you lose the right to do something in your day just because you feel like it at the moment-just because you're alive?"

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

TAKE TIME TO BE YOURSELF!

I've never been a trend follower.  Ever!  But my mother was.  The sentence I most remember her using on me throughout my life was:  "This is what they're wearing now."  And I would always counter with one of two responses:  "Who is 'they'?" and /or "Who cares??"  (There's a reason that I am the sibling with the label, "rebel!")  But really, I wasn't trying to be a rebel, but rather just true to myself.  Why would I want to look like everyone else??  So, when I found this quote in a new book of mine, I just had to use one of its' quotes from an unknown author:
" Embrace your uniqueness.  Time is much too short to be living someone else's life."

Thursday, September 15, 2011

A LOUD VOICE IS SILENCED

Roger Ebert, a well-known vocal movie critic, has lost his ability to speak due to thyroid and salivary gland cancer.  Because his jaw had to be removed, he has been permanently disfigured.  For one who made his living speaking and being in the public eye, it has to have been devastating.  However, he's definitely made lemonade out of lemons.  With modern technology, he can still do what he loves to do.  When being interviewed recently on TV, he had this to say about his disability:  "It's a waste of time feeling sorry for yourself, because it doesn't change anything or help anything.  You just have to keep on, keeping on."

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

AN AWESOME TATTOO!

Kevin, a young man now, who was just a boy when his father was killed in 9/11, had this inscription tattooed on himself and it was so beautifully inscripted:  "If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again."

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

September 11 - 10 years later

As we come up to the anniversary of that fateful day, I have been reading lots of personal accounts of fellow Texans, who had first hand experiences with the horror of Sept. 11.  This first quote is from Christopher Wynn, who was living in NYC at the time, but moved back to Texas a year later to be near family:
"I'm grateful for what I gleaned from tragedy:  Love the people in your life, because the world is temporary.  On the most quiet, unassuming and clear-sky morning, everything around you can change in an instant."
The second one comes from a Katie Nelson, who was a high school senior in 2001.  The year before, she had spent the fall studying in NYC with an urban studies program.  She took a photo with her classmates then at the top of WTC on Sept. 12, 2000, "looking at everything we had experienced over the last semester."  A friend's father was on board the plane that crashed into the north tower.  She says now, "At first I wished that we could just go back to our old way of life.  A life which we lived in blissful ignorance in a world in which our buildings didn't come crashing down on top of us."
And finally, this from firefighter, Allen Richards, who, after 9-11, was intent on getting further training in public safety with an emphasis on emergency management.  He trains paramedics in the field and quotes Dr. Red Duke of Houston: "EMS does not save lives.  G-d does.  It's our job to keep our patients entertained till he makes up his mind."  He also tells his students that they can't change the bad things that people do, but they can be prepared to react."
September 11, 2001 changed us all........ hopefully for the better.

About Me

Dallas, TX, United States
I am an educator and consultant, in the field of loss and grief. I love educating others, as well as learning from them, about life's little and big, happy and sad losses: marriage, divorce, moving away, losing one's health, aging gracefully.....or not......death of a loved one, a pet, a dream, children growing up and parents having to let go, etc. etc. Hopefully, you get the picture. Let's laugh, cry and learn together!