In our society, we are expected to "get over it and move on," when we are grieving. How often do you hear people or yourself say, "Gosh. It's been 3 months. Shouldn't he/she be over this by now?" The short answer is NO! It takes as long as it takes!
"Don't let anyone take your grief away from you. You deserve it, and you must have it. If you had a broken leg, no one would criticize you for using crutches until it was healed. If you had major surgery, no one would pressure you to run in a marathon next week. Grief is a major wound. It does not heal overnight. You must have time and the crutches until you can heal." Doug Manning (who wrote the book, DON'T TAKE MY GRIEF AWAY).
You've cried at weddings, right? At the birth of a baby? And, of course, you've probably cried at funerals, but have you ever stopped to wonder why both happy and sad events, make you so emotional? Even worse, do you often feel like you're the only one? I will impart wisdom gleaned from professional conferences, seminars, books and articles and/or I will blog my personal thoughts. Either way, I hope you check in often, so you know that your tears are never shed in a vacuum!
Sunday, January 9, 2011
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About Me
- Ms. Baby Boomer-dang
- Dallas, TX, United States
- I am an educator and consultant, in the field of loss and grief. I love educating others, as well as learning from them, about life's little and big, happy and sad losses: marriage, divorce, moving away, losing one's health, aging gracefully.....or not......death of a loved one, a pet, a dream, children growing up and parents having to let go, etc. etc. Hopefully, you get the picture. Let's laugh, cry and learn together!
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- WE ARE ALL SO BUSY!
- AGING, PART DEUX
- AGING IS LOSS
- IF YOU HAD ONLY ONE YEAR TO LIVE.......
- ESTABLISH PRIORITIES
- NO DEATH IS EASY
- YOU'RE STILL GRIEVING?!
- CAREGIVERS NEED SELF-CARE
- LIVE FOR TODAY
- SOME PERSONAL INFO.
- DO CHILDREN GRIEVE?
- SOME INTERESTING DEFINITIONS
- MORRIE SCHWARTZ (TUESDAYS WITH MORRIE)
- OUR TOWN
- MY EPIPHANY
- HUMUHUMU
- BUYING A CASKET
- HOW TO RELATE TO A DYING PERSON
- CAN YOU WALK IN THEIR SHOES?
- YOU HAVE PERMISSION TO GRIEVE!
- SAME LOSS, DIFFERENT OUTLOOKS
- WHO NEEDS WORDS?
- KEEP THE DECEASED ALIVE!
- CLOSURE, SCHMOSURE!
- ONE QUOTE A DAY
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