So often, if a loved one is dying, we feel that we are doing him/her a favor by not talking about his/her impending death. If the patient asks, "Am I dying?", a natural response from a loved one might be, "Of course not! Don't be ridiculous!" And then the loved one will change the subject. But that response prevents the dying person from tying up loose ends, mending broken relationships or saying things he/she might want to say. It's so important to take the patient's lead in discussing death. If he/she wants to talk about it, by all means, grant him/her the opportunity!
"Not talking about death to a dying patient is like not talking about birth to a pregnant woman."
You've cried at weddings, right? At the birth of a baby? And, of course, you've probably cried at funerals, but have you ever stopped to wonder why both happy and sad events, make you so emotional? Even worse, do you often feel like you're the only one? I will impart wisdom gleaned from professional conferences, seminars, books and articles and/or I will blog my personal thoughts. Either way, I hope you check in often, so you know that your tears are never shed in a vacuum!
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
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About Me
- Ms. Baby Boomer-dang
- Dallas, TX, United States
- I am an educator and consultant, in the field of loss and grief. I love educating others, as well as learning from them, about life's little and big, happy and sad losses: marriage, divorce, moving away, losing one's health, aging gracefully.....or not......death of a loved one, a pet, a dream, children growing up and parents having to let go, etc. etc. Hopefully, you get the picture. Let's laugh, cry and learn together!
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- WE ARE ALL SO BUSY!
- AGING, PART DEUX
- AGING IS LOSS
- IF YOU HAD ONLY ONE YEAR TO LIVE.......
- ESTABLISH PRIORITIES
- NO DEATH IS EASY
- YOU'RE STILL GRIEVING?!
- CAREGIVERS NEED SELF-CARE
- LIVE FOR TODAY
- SOME PERSONAL INFO.
- DO CHILDREN GRIEVE?
- SOME INTERESTING DEFINITIONS
- MORRIE SCHWARTZ (TUESDAYS WITH MORRIE)
- OUR TOWN
- MY EPIPHANY
- HUMUHUMU
- BUYING A CASKET
- HOW TO RELATE TO A DYING PERSON
- CAN YOU WALK IN THEIR SHOES?
- YOU HAVE PERMISSION TO GRIEVE!
- SAME LOSS, DIFFERENT OUTLOOKS
- WHO NEEDS WORDS?
- KEEP THE DECEASED ALIVE!
- CLOSURE, SCHMOSURE!
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