You've cried at weddings, right? At the birth of a baby? And, of course, you've probably cried at funerals, but have you ever stopped to wonder why both happy and sad events, make you so emotional? Even worse, do you often feel like you're the only one? I will impart wisdom gleaned from professional conferences, seminars, books and articles and/or I will blog my personal thoughts. Either way, I hope you check in often, so you know that your tears are never shed in a vacuum!
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
IT'S NEVER TOO LATE!
I was watching the Today Show today, as I do most everyday, and there was a segment by Jane Pauley on aging. She interviewed a man, who, when he was going through a divorce and depression, he went to the beach to de-stress. Being a carpenter, he decided, just on a lark, to build a sandcastle. It was therapy for him. Now he has commissions all over the world as a professional sand sculpturer! But it was his words, even more than his beautiful work, that really got to me. He said, "If you're really dissatisfied, find something that feeds your soul, that gets you excited. Don't quit your job." (Altho he did, after 6 months!) "Just make it a bigger part of your life, because that's going to give you the balance that you need." He loves doing what he does, especially because he is always surrounded by happy people, who are in awe of his work, as am I! He said, "It's so intoxicating. I had never had those moments before in my life." When he was asked what happens if the sandcastle falls down, his answer was, "Things collapse, just like in life. You just start all over again." His only regret? He didn't start doing this until after age 50. The lesson here: start early in life making time for the things that truly bring you joy!
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About Me
- Ms. Baby Boomer-dang
- Dallas, TX, United States
- I am an educator and consultant, in the field of loss and grief. I love educating others, as well as learning from them, about life's little and big, happy and sad losses: marriage, divorce, moving away, losing one's health, aging gracefully.....or not......death of a loved one, a pet, a dream, children growing up and parents having to let go, etc. etc. Hopefully, you get the picture. Let's laugh, cry and learn together!
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